I wasnt invited to my friends bacholorette party or shower but she invited me to her wedding and IMS me every?

day...does that mean im not considered a close friend anymore? her friends dont know me that well so i dunno if it was them that didnt invite me or her. she says she wants to see me sometime and even says she loves me like she says to alot of her good friends so i duno if it was her family that didnt invite me or what and she said she wanted to see me to have lunch but now she says shes too busy when i know she sees other friends